Perceptions of Parenting Before and After Baby

Before MacBaby's birth, MacDad and I had numerous conversations about the type of parents we would be. Looking back, we were clueless. As many ideas as you can have in your head about how you will parent, it all changes once the little one is in your arms.

We were both anti-formula (MacBaby had it on his first day of life) and anti-co-sleeping (MacBaby still sleeps in our bed). I remember in about my 8th month of pregnancy, MacDad and I debated crying it out. I was anti, and MacDad was pro. He positioned himself as the ultimate disciplinarian, needing to assert control over MacBaby's behavior.

Needless to say, this is not the case. It seems as though MacDad is a pushover, and must instill rules. For instance, when MacBaby finds Oreos in our bed at 9 p.m. (don't ask), he desperately wanted one. I refused, but MacDad, swayed by toddler tears, gave in.

Obviously, the cry it out method has not been discussed any further in our household.